How to impress a Polish woman - TOP5 Dating Tips
If you have met your Polish dream girl, please accept our congratulations. Now you are going to meet her in person and get to know her better. The first date is something really exciting and thrilling.
And you have to look your best and impress her to the very core. Polish ladies are different from American or western girls, so your “western” approach will hardly work with them.
But no need to panic! We from Best-Matchmaking have taken care of you to get your date with a Polish woman with a bang! Rom this article, you are going to find out how to impress your Polish bride at the very first date. We have provided five most efficient dating tips which will 100% work with your girlfriend from Poland. Don’t underestimate these simple tips.
Ready to impress your Polish girlfriend? Then let’s start!
TIP 1. Behave not worse than Polish men do
You may wonder, what does this mean? Well, an average Polish man is always a gentleman. Guys in Poland know how to behave with a woman. They always open the door for her, pay the bills at the restaurants and cafes, and let the woman always first wherever they are. They also open the door of the car and give a hand to her when she is getting out of the car.
Do not forget about the kiss on both cheeks, this is a sign of politeness in Poland. But please do not kiss her on cheeks during your first meeting. She will think you are too arrogant. Instead of that, better kiss her hand when you see her for the first time. This way, you will be perceived as the best gentleman in the world.
Unfortunately, this tradition is disappearing even among Polish men, so if you do that, she will remember that for a long time and her first impression about you will be unforgettable. This habit shows your respect to a lady.
A Polish man will also help a lady to carry her luggage or just a heavy bag. So if you offer your help with it, too, it will be much appreciated. The equal rights of men and women do not work in Poland, while Polish girls are not feministic and want to be appreciated by men as weaker creatures. Chivalry is not dead in this country, so this is your good chance to impress a Polish lady with your good manners and gentleman’s attitude.
TIP 2. Flowers are a must!
Since you already know that girls from Poland appreciate when a man behaves like a gentleman, they would not mind getting a bunch of flowers for your first date. If you want to do it for your next day as well, you are welcome. Polish people offer flowers not only for dates but for various occasions, such as weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, childbirth, etc.
But if you forget about flowers for the first date, then be sure you’ve made the biggest failure. If you don’t know where to buy a bunch of flowers in Poland, don’t worry, while they are available almost at every corner in the country, and especially on the farmer’s markets.
Bringing a bunch of flowers for your first day won’t leave your Polish girlfriend indifferent. Remember that the first impression is the most important and you can’t waste a great opportunity to conquer her Polish heart from the first second of your meeting.
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If you meet not only your Polish bride but her mother, sister, or daughter, make sure to bring a bunch of flowers for them as well. This way, you will have an extra point! S. our gift delivery service.
TIP 3. Think of what you will talk about beforehand to avoid boring conversation
Polish girls are a lot of fun in fact. They adore having fun, attending various parties and hate boring men. So a boring conversation is not something that will impress her. A Polish lady will always pay attention to what you say and how you communicate.
Some guys adore talking a lot about things that are interesting only to guys. That is the biggest no-no when it comes to dating a lady from Poland. She doesn’t require being in the center of your spotlight but still, she wants to interact and lead a good and interesting conversation to you both.
Once you start talking only about football, politics, or too much about yourself, she will realize you are not a match. So, please avoid talking much about yourself or about “guy” things and pay attention to what is interesting for her. If you have communicated for some time previously, you should know she has some hobbies and interests, too. Talk to her about them or ask her about her family or friends.
For a Polish lady, the way you speak is even more important than the topic you discuss. These girls adore confident men. So, instead of asking her if she would love to go to the Chinese restaurant, just tell her that you are taking her there. Believe us, you will make an impression of a confident and strong man she is looking for.
Polish females prefer when men are telling the truth. They do not like men who always agree about everything and always say “yes”. If you don’t like something or there are things that irritate you about her, tell it to her. Yes, she may not like it but she will know you have your own opinion and are not afraid to tell about it. At least, you will show her you are different from all other guys.
TIP 4. Show your Polish woman that you are financially secure
Polish ladies are not gold diggers at all, they are very hard-working, educated, and they earn very well and provide for themselves successfully. However, any woman wants to be confident in her man.
She is going to date a foreign man, so she needs to be sure this man will be able to provide for his Polish wife. Sure, it would be perfect if she would see your good car, fancy haircut, and expensive clothes. These things usually do the trick.
Don’t forget to pay your date bills. Polish girls are not that feministic to insist and pay their part of the dating bill, though they can do it. But if you insist and do that yourself, this will impress her, while this is the gentleman’s habit.
No, Polish girls are not seeking rich men at all. However, if she doesn’t feel her future husband is financially secure, she will hardly be able to keep communicating with him and moreover, follow him to his country. Women in Poland are seeking long term relationships and they want to be sure in their foreign husbands.
Remember that an international marriage requires her to be ready for changes and this is an important step for her. So, avoid telling your Polish girl that you earn enough for yourself only. This is one of the biggest no-nos. Instead of that, tell her that you are ready to support her and be a reliable partner for her. And most important, that you are ready to be responsible for you both as a couple.
TIP 5. Take care of your appearance
Any woman can say appearance doesn’t matter for her. But! It does matter! Although ladies pay more attention to your inner world, your first impression is made only by how you look like. Men love with their eyes, so do women.
A Polish girl doesn’t need you to wear an expensive watch or designer clothing, but being tidy and stylish is a must! If you invited her to an expensive restaurant and she looks her best wearing her sexiest dress and high heels and you are in your tracksuit and sneakers, this is a failure!
Make sure to look tidy, wear stylish clothes, be shaved and have a good haircut for your first date with a Polish woman. We bet you prefer when a lady looks well-cared and wears beautiful clothes, hair, and nails, right? So your Polish girl expects you to do the same. She has to see you put some efforts to impress her. By the way, good fragrance and tidy shoes is a must! If you want to really impress her, you will have to smell good! An expensive fragrance is something that conquers any woman regardless of the country of her origin.
Conclusion: Want to impress a Polish lady – be a gentleman
Polish ladies make wonderful girlfriend, wives, and mothers even. They are a great combination of Eastern and Western values. Unlike other Slavic women (e.g. Russian brides or Ukrainian brides), they speak good English and are easier to approach, but, at the same time, they are not that feministic as Western girls.
Girls in Poland are not picky and are very open to meeting and dating foreign guys. They adore having fun and spend quality time. But it doesn’t mean you do not have to put any efforts to impress them. Like any lady, a Polish woman wants to have your attention and feel needed and respected. We hope our TOP5 tips on how to impress a Polish woman will help you and make your dating much easier and more successful!
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Written by Katrina El, a practicing psychologist, professional matchmaker and founder of the Slavic marriage agency Best-Matchmaking.com.
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