Why You Should Not Marry an American Woman?

American women are known for being very independent and strong. They tend to be career driven and ambitious. This makes them great at their jobs, but usually not suitable for marriage. 

This means that they often get bored easily and are less likely to commit themselves to a relationship. In addition, they are usually materialistic and want to settle down before 30 years old.

This post is not meant to dissuade you from marrying an American girl if you have already found true love, but if you are still hunting, use this as an eye opener. 

Here, we point out some facts about why you should not opt for an American woman for marriage and expand your horizons. If any of these reasons resonate with you, you should definitely look for more options as there is plenty of fish in the sea!

In this article, we will find out: 

  • The TOP reasons why you should not marry an American woman 

Top Reasons To Not Marry An American Woman

While we certainly don't like to propagate these stereotypes about women from America, the statistics on American marriage are terrifying. 

Divorce rates in America are a whopping 60% and startling research reveals that American women are often a source of trouble in these marriages. Research also indicates that American women can be too demanding!

It's no secret that globalization has now increased the hunting for single women and men. You don't have to go looking for a wife in America only. In fact, married women from America are increasingly proving to be unsuitable matches. 

Some other trends in America's landscape include the rise of same-sex marriage and cohabitation. This means that marriage opportunities for men in America are already on the decline!

But here, we will talk about some of the reasons why women from America might not be the match that you are looking for. 

1. The High Failure Rate

If you are looking for a stable marriage, then women from America might not be your best bet. Whether you're looking to settle with an African American woman or a white one, these women are known to be strong-headed.

This means that if your marriage experiences any turbulence, these women will not be afraid to walk out on you. A large proportion of women from America are looking for marital relationships in which men are okay with having a strong-headed woman on their side. 

So if you're looking for a stable marriage with a woman who is willing to compromise for you, you should opt for unmarried women in different countries around the globe. 


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2. The High Cost of Divorcing an American Woman

Believe it or not, this is another barrier to marriage. Sure no one wants to walk into a marriage thinking about divorce. But you should know that in the event of separation from an American woman, the cost is going to be high. 

American men tend to lose more marital assets in a legal marriage with white women or black women from America, as compared to marrying from some other country. This also weighs heavily on the benefits of marriage with women from America!

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3. The Changing Values

While statistics show that changing views of family relationships are more rampant in black people, these are true for white women too. Women from America now have different ideologies and values on their role inside a family, life experiences, and what a marriage should look like. 

These women are now more comfortable with cohabitation, as compared to marriage. The number of married people is steadily declining in the United States. 

4. The Growing Racial Divide in the United States

Ethnic differences, structural factors, and a racial divide are also fueling the decline in marriage rates in the United States. Men are now opting to marry more black women, as compared to white women in America. 

This is because black women are more motivated to marry into a white race, due to economic factors. Black women continue to be at the lowest levels of financial stability and marriage has become a step to mitigate their poor economic situation. 

Statistics show that black women look for factors like the level of education, stable employment, and financial assets of a man before they change their marital status to 'taken'.

The desire to marry American men for economic factors makes black women undesirable to men who are looking for real love in a marriage. The life experiences of black women put undue pressure on marital relationships, making them an unfit match. 


5. Women From Other Cultures Are ''Warmer''

As per the viewpoint of men from America, their driving factors to get married have shifted dramatically. They are no longer looking for a college degree or gauging the educational level of their wives-to-be. 

In fact, men are now on the prowl for women who are warmer and more affectionate. They are looking for women who want to nurture and can become excellent mothers to their biological children. It's now believed that women from other countries like Russia are warmer and more affectionate.

However, you should keep in mind that married women from other cultures will have different traditions and values. You should only opt for interracial marriage if you will be patient with the differences. 

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How To Make Your Marriage Successful?

Let's suppose that despite the declines in marriage rates, you do manage to find someone you click with. You don't always have to choose a woman whose birth certificate is for the US! Be open to other countries and cultures.

But it's important to improve your readiness for marriage to make sure that the relationship is a success! 

Here are a few tips to help you make the union more successful and improve your readiness for marriage. These tips will be even more helpful if you're jumping into an interracial marriage!

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1. Be Patient With A Relationship

You must first learn patience when it comes to relationships. If you rush things, it may end up hurting both you and your partner later on. So, take time to build trust, respect, and communication.


2. Learn How To Respect Each Other

Learn how to listen to one another and be respectful even if you have ethnic differences. It's not enough to just talk; you need to listen. Try to avoid interrupting each other and being overly critical. Always remember to give positive reinforcement rather than negative criticism.


3. Have Fun Together

Try to have fun together whenever possible. Go out and enjoy yourselves. Don't spend all of your free time studying or working.

4. Be Honest About Yourself

Be honest about yourself so that you don't let your partner down. Tell him/her what you really think and feel without any hesitation. If you're not comfortable doing this, seek professional help.

5. Focus On Family and Friend Relationships

All relationships have their ups and downs. You must always maintain focus on family and friends.

! But Never forget that the person you choose...

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Now, over to you....Was current post useful? Are you still considering American lady to marry with? Feel free to share your opinion on the subject I have described above and kindly leave your comment bellow.

Written by Katrina El, a practicing psychologist, professional matchmaker and founder of the Slavic marriage agency Best-Matchmaking.com.


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