Why do Ukrainian brides want to marry foreigners?
I hope you are in a good mood today and if not, I am going to raise it. Because I would like to reveal the truth and tell you about the real reasons for which Ukrainian women are really willing to marry you – foreign guys.
Those times when post-Soviet ladies wanted to marry the very first western guy to run out of their countries are well behind, so get ready to find out the reality!
Ready? Let’s start to discuss the reasons why Ukrainian brides want to marry foreigners.
Stereotypes VS Reality
· Ukrainian women want your money.
· Ukrainian women can earn very well so they simply do not need a man who cannot provide for them.
· They want to leave their awful country and move to yours.
· Life in their country isn’t that bad. They earn well, dress well, afford traveling and driving cars. So marriage for the sake of moving to your country is senseless. It is not difficult to move to another country nowadays.
· They run away from lazy and alcoholic Ukrainian men.
· Alcoholics and lazy men happen in any country.
· Not to work and live near the ocean
· There are plenty of wealthy men in their country and they can have it all by marrying one of them
· They want Green Card
· There are plenty of other ways to get it if they want
The very first reason for our ladies to marry foreigners is the demographic situation in Ukraine. Ukrainian ladies (also all Slavic mail order brides) want to move abroad not because their men are that bad but because there are much fewer men than women in these countries.
Moreover, the situation is even more difficult while the duration of men’s life is less than that of ladies. So women often become widows early and at their 40s it is already a problem for them to find a man of their age.
There is some historical background in that demographic situation. Some decades ago, there was a girl baby-boom on the South of Ukraine. There were many new-born girls and not so many boys at that time. And still, the number of new-born girls exceeds that of boys both in Russia and Ukraine.
So taking into account that the duration of men’s life in these countries is shorter than women’s and that the number of new-born girls exceeds the number of boys, we can easily imagine the situation with the search of a life-partner in these Slavic counties. Men have a very rich choice, and women have a very poor one.
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High migration rate
As far as you know, Ukrainian citizens currently don’t need a visa to go to Europe. For that reason, lots of Ukrainian men go to Europe for work and spend there months and years, and women remain in the country. Very often, Ukrainian migrants decide to stay in Europe permanently and never go back home.
Since the demand exceeds the offer, every man, even a loser thinks that he can get any Beauty Queen without putting many efforts. What should women who search for men do in that case? Of course, there is nothing left but search for a man elsewhere.
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Yes, the reason number 3 is welfare. Keep in mind that this is not the primary reason for which Ukrainian women start searching for western guys.
But still very important. Modern girls in Ukraine stopped sitting at home and waiting for men to bring money home. They tend to get a good education and create a good career to be more or less successful and independent.
At the same time, men stopped working hard while seeing how successful women are. They don’t want to put too many efforts to provide for their families.
An average salary of a Ukrainian government employee is $200-$300. Now compare it to the salary of the same employee in your country. More and more men become lazy while they gave their way to local women.
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Please don’t think now that Ukrainian and also Russian women don’t want to meet and marry local men. They do want and they marry every day!
Otherwise, Ukraine and Russia would have been the countries of singles already. But taking into account all the mentioned reasons and the fact that times change, more ladies tend to look for a man abroad.
One of the main differences between western and Ukrainian men is their attitude to family and relationships.
Local men in Ukraine and Russia are great husbands and fathers. But it happens often that they cheat on their women. As we know, western men are better in that aspect. Any Russian, Ukrainian and Belarussian bride will know for sure that her western husband will be loyal to her as well as she will be to him.
Also, women in Russia and Ukraine are a bit tired of doing households all the time and serve their husbands. Some men stopped treating them as women and just take everything women do for granted. Men almost don’t share their duties and let’s not forget that women have to work, cook, clean, wash, and take care of children and husband. While a man just works. Such an inequity makes women hope that the attitude of western men towards them will be different!
If you have questions concerning the search of a Ukrainian woman, don’t hesitate to get in touch with Kate, a psychologist, dating blogger, and professional matchmaker. Her consultations are free. If your intentions are pure and serious, she will help you choose your dating membership plan or even Slavic matchmaking package at reasonable prices! And nothing will prevent you from finding your future Slavic bride!
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Written by Katrina El, a practicing psychologist, professional matchmaker and founder of the Slavic marriage agency Best-Matchmaking.com.
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hi Kate! thanks a lot for such a useful post! I have been thinking a lot about why Ukrainian brides want to marry foreigners, if theri intentions are honest or not… I guess i have to read more about this subject..
thank you Jim for such a good comment. If you are really interested to learn more about Ukrainian brides and Why do Ukrainian brides want to marry foreigners- feel free to contact me. Best Kate