IMPORTANT RULES FOR BUILDING UP SUCCESSFUL & Long-lasting Relations
Have you even thought what is the difference between couples that stay together forever and those who just brake up really fast?
You may consider it’s because some people are lucky and some are don’t.. well, It’s not really so.
I truly believe there must be real emotional connection between two in order to have stable and happy relation. What is emotional connection? It is so-called intimacy. Oh, please do not get me wrong here. Intimacy doesn’t mean kisses, hugs or sex only. It is something much global which is really based on deep personal connection between 2 people.
Some may say:” Oh, there was no spark in our relations and we had to break up…”
But what is “ SPARK” ?
It is definitely not physical attraction only. It is trust, admiration, the ability to admit all good in your partner- not bad, the ability to accept her as she is .., the ability to give without expecting to get something in return.
Unfortunately, most of the people do not even try to think or to understand that!
When you start building up your business or study at the university Or doing sport professionally to achieve remarkable results do you work really hard? …. the answer is definitely YES.
So who said that in order to build up successful & Long-lasting Relations you must not be at pains?
……..Please think about it also…..
Now, let’s discuss some possible rules that may lead to happiness.
A Rule number 1:
Always be open towards your partner!
Being too open often considered to be weak, well, it is not so.. Once you show her your sensitivity you are to make her feel trusted in you. So if there is a “ right lady” by your side than she will accept you and try to support you by all means. Yet, Ukrainian bride ( according to her mentality) will be thankful for being so open and trustful with her..
There will start a new level of your relations, full of trust and understanding.
A Rule number 2:
Being generous means the ability to give without expecting to get something in return.
Being generous is considered to be forgiven also even when you’ve gotten heart by your partner. as well as to be brave enough to sincerely apologize when you was wrong.
Be generous by giving your attention, smile, admiration and gladness. So you will get same in return from your partner.
A Rule number 3:
Remember to surprise each other from time to time!
Surprises are capable to ginger up even when relations seems to be dead as they give feeling of magic moments, especially when 2 of you are so bogged down with your daily graft.
Because, from the very start of your relations each day is full of surprises as you get to know your partner more and more but with time “the fire is getting dull” so you have to pay more attention at your relation’s development.
Happy couples after many years on always get an adventure to surprise each other. As Every partner gets real enjoyment to see “ spark” in his\ her spouse eyes… This what may really hold them together.
So any little surprise prepared by you, such as romantic dinner for example, can really make your partner’s day!
Mark in your day planner not only business tasks but also to make your lady surprised and you will be blown away with the result that will come out of it!
A Rule number 4:
Always allow some time just to be together!
Your job, daily routine, child-rearing, social networks, books and many other things may occupy quite a lot of your time!
If you have a lot of work to do or can not skip your business than you have to spend each free moment of your life with loved one, otherwise your relations can be destroyed!
Even sending of couple nice sms during the busy working day can really make up your partner’s positive mood. And once you are together- try to forget everything what surrounds you daily!!! Be completely devoted to your partner !